Let Them Drink Wine?

mtn vineyard

mtn top vineyard ~d nelson

“Do not avoid contact with suffering or close your eyes before suffering. Do not lose awareness of the existence of suffering in the world. Find ways to be with those who are suffering by all means, including personal contact and visits, images, sounds. By such means, …awaken yourself and others to the reality of suffering in the world. If we get in touch with the suffering of the world, and are moved by that suffering, we may come forward to help the people who are suffering.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

In last week’s post I shared my song of gratitude for being alive, It’s a Gift. Today I feel gratitude for having cultivated compassion when encountering suffering in myself and those around me. In this story, clarity was realized only after allowing calm breaths to help transform negative feelings, brought on by dissonant words and actions, into fresh, internal spaciousness.

red wine to be

red wine to be

Out for a cycle on the gorgeously clear and warm fall morning, I ran out of water. Should have been more mindful about filling the water bottle before leaving. Several miles away from any store I decided to stop at the first place that could give water. Along that rural road there are several vineyards. Noticing a sign for a winery I thought to stop in. It had been years since I stopped drinking alcohol and last visited a winery. Inside several people were sniffing and sipping. The owners kindly provided me with a filled water bottle. I asked how well their grapes did this growing season. Was told it was a very good year with the extended warm weather. I asked about water, as this year is now the driest on record in California. The woman told me that they put in a deeper well, since over the last years it produced less and less. Now they have an abundance of water, so their hillside of grapes and landscaping is lushly green. She said the water table is down for many in this area. This is not surprising considering the drought conditions. I asked if she thought the deeper well might affect other’s wells. In this area there are many farms, and not so far away is a town which depends on well water. She said “maybe, but that’s not my problem. Besides, if they run out of water they can always drink wine.” My heart sank hearing those words, as it did not seem she was joking. I pedaled away grateful to have water.

corks popped

corks popped

As I rode I wondered how common is it now to have such a privileged attitude? It seems perhaps, too common. A cultural habit of acquiring land and using resources with minimal regard to karma, or the consequences of actions. Perhaps this is what we should expect when seeds of desire and greed are watered, nurtured and allowed to flourish through unwise leadership and inadequate regulation to protect and preserve.

after harvest

after harvest

I felt a need to be in the presence of people who seem closer to the earth. So before going home I stopped at the local Wal-Mart, which is quite busy in the parking lot. Sipping on my water bottle, I people watched. Many in this crowd seemed economically poor, disheveled, some more down and out

corks popped 2

corks popped 2

than others. No one looked too dressed up. Shopping where prices are said to be cheaper out of necessity. Brief hello’s and smiles exchanged I remembered that in my travels it has been the poor who have offered a deeper hospitality. Poor men and women who have next to nothing materially, yet still generously offer thanks to their creator, to their ancestors, to the universe, to loved ones and to strangers. Expressing a wealth of spirit, they did not live with spiritual poverty. I believe many of those before me could be so generous. I went home, then later returned with fruit and nuts from the co-op, donating them to some people I noticed, transient, maybe homeless, camping out in the fields near the parking lot. Cycling home a passage from “The Grapes of Wrath”, popped into my mind out of the blue. Amazing since I read that story of California hard times way back in a high school English class. At the moment it serves me as a warning, a mindfulness bell, to wake up to what is happening now, for a future to be possible.

white wine to be

white wine to be ~d nelson

“And the great owners with access to history, with eyes to read history and to know the great fact: when property accumulates in too few hands it is taken away. And that companion fact: when a majority of the people are hungry and cold they will take by force what they need. And the little screaming fact that sounds through all history: repression works only to strengthen and knit the repressed. The great owners ignored the three cries of history. The land fell into fewer hands, the number of the dispossessed increased, and every effort of the great owners was directed at repression. The money was spent for arms, for gas to protect the great holdings, and spies were sent to catch the murmuring of revolt so that it might be stamped out. The changing economy was ignored, plans for the change ignored; and only means to destroy revolt were considered, while the causes of revolt went on…and in the eyes of the people there is the failure; and in the eyes of the hungry there is a growing wrath. In the souls of the people the grapes of wrath are filling and growing heavy, growing heavy for the vintage.” ~John Steinbeck

grapes of wrath

grapes of wrath

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20 thoughts on “Let Them Drink Wine?

  1. LaVagabonde

    I’ve also noticed on my travels that it’s those who have less who offer hospitality. Those who are rich in wealth often need more and more to feed the hungry ghost within.

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  2. harulawordsthatserve

    What a poignant story, and a little frightening perhaps, but I trust your opening quote from Thay, that to engage with suffering, my own as well as that of others, is the way to open my heart to compassion and service in order to end suffering. Thank you for your awakening words and for sharing your fruit and nuts:-) It’s been my experience too that those with the least materially are also the most generous with what they do have. I watched a wonderful old french film recently, ‘Jean de Florette’ which focuses on the importance of water, and the tragedy that can occur when a community doesn’t rightly share such a precious resource. Wishing you a wonderful week my friend, Harula xxxx

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  3. ♡eM

    Wow! Your bike ride brought such reflection, wonder, and meaning to you and me. Our travels can teach us to be more compassionate and understanding. But they can also bring judgement and frustration. At least mine do. Thank you for this post.

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    1. smilecalm Post author

      Thanks for kindly reflecting on my cycle. Somehow I catch more of what’s subtle moving in that way, slowly. And more time for negative judgments, for sure.

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  4. Grass Oil by Molly Field

    Wow. Steinbeck was a master, wasn’t he? What a wonderful post you wrote. I was thinking as I read along, “the deeper well will be a metaphor and what a good one…” and then, like you, my heart sank at the greed of the vintner. I maintain my metaphor ambitions: “dig deep (inside yourself and your suffering) and you will find relief and relieve others.” Thank you for feeding the poor. Wal-mart… What a giant antenna of irony.

    Thank you for commenting on my blog post today, too. Oddly, almost immediately after I wrote it, I was overcome with sadness for my mother.

    Blessings to you.

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    1. smilecalm Post author

      Thanks for your insight and kind words. In these interesting times, it’s possible to learn from the past and make the present and future a beautiful place.

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      1. Soul Fields

        Yes, and that was more a reminder to myself due to what I am observing here in my country and society of what has been taken place since of a couple of decades. Money has still many lessons to humanity, but I´m a believer that things are getting better on the long run. Sometimes individual persons take it backward before moving forward, so that´s what I´v been observing in the society as well. Thankful for all the opposing voices of wisdom…:)

  5. Genie

    Must be all the sulphites in the wine [organic wine has sulphites too, read the label, it is added after manufacturing] made the owner speak that way.
    Just being sarcastic, and also, letting people know about the hidden sulphites in foods and beverages.

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